LEMERA Academy · Four-week program

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After the Affair: Finding Stability After Betrayal

A four-week educational program for adults navigating the emotional aftermath of a partner's infidelity. Explore grounding practices, understand your reactions, reconnect with yourself, and consider your next steps at your own pace.

Planned founding price · $49
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Course overview

A steady structure for an unsteady time.

The weeks after discovery are often the hardest to think clearly through. This program doesn't ask you to decide anything quickly. It gives you information, language, and practices so you can move through the next month with more stability.

Intended audience

Adults navigating the early emotional aftermath of discovering a partner's infidelity. Written for people whose relationship is continuing, pausing, or ending — and for those who simply don't know yet.

What participants will learn

  • A clearer language for what happens emotionally after betrayal is discovered
  • Grounding and regulation practices you can use in difficult moments
  • A way to separate your identity from what happened to your relationship
  • A framework for deciding what you want next — without being rushed into it

Program format

  • A new module opens each week for four weeks
  • Complete available lessons at your own pace
  • Short written lessons designed to fit into an ordinary day
  • Reflection prompts, with a planned downloadable workbook
  • Educational only, and clearly labeled as such

Curriculum

Four modules, released one week at a time.

A new module opens each week for four weeks. Complete available lessons at your own pace — expand a module to see what it covers.

Week 1 · 3 lessons

  • What Betrayal Sets Off
  • Naming What You Feel
  • Why Nothing Feels Decided

Planned module workbook

Planned resources

Workbooks and worksheets.

Materials are still being developed. Each module will include a workbook and worksheets, released to enrolled members as they become available.

  • Participant WorkbookThe full four-module workbook with space for every reflection prompt.Planned resource
  • Grounding Practices CardA one-page reminder of the regulation practices from Module 2.Planned resource
  • Weekly Reflection JournalA simple template for the daily prompts across all four modules.Planned resource
  • Decision Pacing WorksheetPrompts from Module 4 to work through before making any decision.Planned resource

Educational disclaimer

LEMERA currently provides education and wellness resources. It does not provide psychotherapy, diagnosis, or treatment, and this program does not replace care from a licensed professional. LEMERA is not a crisis service — if you are in immediate danger or crisis, contact your local emergency services or a crisis line in your country.

Program waitlist

Join the Program Waitlist.

Joining is free. It does not enroll you in the program, guarantee a place, or create any payment obligation — it simply means we'll tell you first when the program opens.

Please don't include personal health information in this form.

Enrollment

Coming soon

Enrollment opens when the program launches.

  • Planned founding price: $49
  • A new module opens each week for four weeks
  • Complete available lessons at your own pace
  • Joining the waitlist is free and creates no payment obligation